If you’re going to go ahead and start something with someone … it shouldn’t be based on looks/talent/impressions…. it should be based on how much time you actually, technically want to spend that person. How at ease you are? How calmed down you are by them being around? How much smiling happens when you see [...]

Tonight the older kids had a big fight. Parenting is hard and if you have children you can parent without having to choose between them, more eff-ing power to you. Reality here is that you have to choose and I am always guilt-wracked at how often and how obviously the high maintenance one wins. I’m [...]

Today I went looking for Christmas Android apps for my phone. The android market is full of bullshit Christmas apps – like one that will set my ringtone to jingle bells. Oh gosh thanks cause if I wanted that, I couldn’t have figured out how to do that on my own. Here’s more: Christmas Bell [...]

So the workshop in Calgary with Mohamed El Hosseny was AH-maaaaaaazing. People ask how it was and then right after I expostulate “AH-maaaaaazing,” I do this big “OMG, it was so fun. We learned a Simsimaya piece – which is sailor dancing. SAILOR DANCING!!! OMG. Look, you hold your hands like so, and they represent [...]